Which are the good topics to talk about when you are going to binding in a relation for the long term:
Most of the time to talk someone becomes a quite tough job I have some tips with good topics to talk about when you feel uncomfortable or hesitate to talk, these types of things usually happen due low confidence or if you are afraid due to some reasons.
Here I want to give reference to T.S Eliot`s Waste Land(love song) in which Prufrock (character) was also facing this type of condition. He was hesitated to talk with anyone even he was not able to express his love to whom he loves and as a result, he became an alone person. That`s the fault whenever you are unable to talk someone.
Here are some precautions in brief:
- Don`t make yourself alone
- Don`t sit separately in gathering
- Don`t loose your self-confidence.
- Makeup yourself quite gentle.
- In gathering don`t show any type of cynical attitude.
These are the things you must have to keep in your mind.
Now I am going to explain how to talk with someone. If the person is totally unknown for you then don`t get panic make you quite relax and then start.
Firstly talk randomly with that girl or guy to whom you are meeting the first time. Ask some of the random questions but not silly ones. Stay confident and don`t become shy in front of that person.
Then ask about qualifications career and also told about you education about your schooling college and university and also get to about these things of another one.
Ask about favorite subjects also give your opinion on that subject but in a positive way.
Friends or fellows:
Then ask about friends and fellows which were in school and colleges. Get to know about best friend and also told about your friends.
Ask about hobbies. Get to know which one is a favorite hobby. Talk about that hobby if you have some knowledge on it share that.. also told your hobby and explain why you love it.
Then talk about entertainment. Get to know what is the source of entertainment. Talk about favorite songs, view movies, and plays. Share views on all that things. Also, interchange your choice and all that.
Talk about future plans. What’s in your mind and you are thinking to do in future. Either you are interested in business or job. What is your financial cycle and if you are interested in marrying her then how much time you need for your settlement.
Also, share your parent’s views which they have for that person you are meeting if you are meeting at their wish. If you like that person then realize your likeness but you don`t like that person then don`t use any type of harsh words. Just talk politely.
If you are talking with aged person talk about the current affairs of politics. Exchange your views whats going on in the world. Which thing is a hot potato in the politics? Talk about your favorite politician.
Travelling is one of the most favorite things of people. Many people are fond of traveling. If you are meeting with your future partner then ask these types of questions because traveling is one of romantic thing. Ask about a favorite place. travel together in hilly areas because there is peace in that type of places.
Food and cooking:
Ask about favorite food and get to know what she can cook for you. Ask is she interested in cooking or not. And which thing she can cook well. Ask about her favorite dish and also tells her which type of food is your favorite one.
Past life experience:
Talk about past life experience either there was someone in your life or not. Told about your past life and all that experiences that you have faced either it is about your love history your domestic issues and any other type of problems. But don`t go into the depth just told a few major matters.
Happy moments of life:
Talk about the happy moments of life. Ask about that moment which was the happiest moment and why? Then share out your happy moments of life.
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If you have happy moments then at the same time you also have some sad or worst moments get to know about all that matters and how did they happen… it`s great if your future partner told you these types of things.
In every bodies life, there is such kind of proud moments which nobody can forget ever in life. Everyone feels proud in tellings the proud moments. Usually when u passed out your exams in top grades that time feels much proud.
As we know everybody has their dreams in life share your dreams and also come to know about other one’s dreams… told how much you are conscious make your dream true and which type of struggling you are doing.
Every person sets their goal which they want to get at every cost and life is incomplete if you don`t have any goal. With goals, you are able to get your destiny. Share your goal with your partner and prefer which your partner recommends.
Every person has a secret in their life. Ask secrets as a game and reveal your secrets one by one. It will be full of fun and you will come to know each in depth. Ask questions turn by turn.
Discuss your vacations plans where you want to spend your vacations. Try to spend your vacations together like this you are able to spend more time with each other and can get to know each other.
In the end, give your personal opinion. After sitting what you conclude about each other. Do your likes and dislikes are same or not. You are able to live with each other or not…
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To conclude the whole debate we can say communication is a most necessary thing. Without communication, you can not convey anything to your dear and near ones. I presented above all description which is with good topics to talk about with the help of this you can get many ideas.